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Origins of The Upkeep (Premium Content)

I’ve realized in the last couple of weeks that my own family is at a critical turning point. My kids are just 2 and 4 years old, and I’ve never really thought or expected very much of them in terms of “pitching in” around the house or contributing to our family in any meaningful way (besides their being there).

When they were babies, we did everything for them… and that’s just how things continued to progress. Old habits die hard — I’ve kept doing things for them because, well, I just did. But now, I’m beginning to understand that if I ever want to bring them into the fold, the time to act is now. (Actually, the time to act was “all along,” but there’s no time like the present, as they say.)

“This”^^ sentiment seems almost ubiquitous among American parents these days (right??), but things were not always this way…

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